There is nowhere in the general definition of rape where it states
that rape can only occur outside marriage. Rape is rape! As long as it
is a sexual assault which involves penetration against a person without
the person's consent... whether within or outside marriage.
I
learnt that the Nigerian Law has no provisions for persecution of
marital rape criminals. When I sort to read further, it still has to do
with beliefs. This is rather appalling, and I find it disturbing that
the Nigerian Law uses marriage as a tool to promote rape.
I spoke
with a woman in 2013, a total stranger who simply needed someone to
talk to. The husband forced himself on her days after she delivered
their baby. She had vagina stitches which was yet to heal at the time.
The rape resulted in her needing further stitches because of the force.
She was so scared to go back home, so she had to run back to be with her
mother till she heals.
Nothing was done, the man got away with
raping his wife and inflicting injuries on her. Why? Because they are
married. More like marriage now gives one immunity against punishment
for certain crimes.
In some saner climes somewhere on this same
planet, such a man would face charges for rape, sexual assault and
grievous bodily harm... maybe amongst others. But in my country, he
walks freely because he has a certificate that certifies him "married".
This is an extreme case, I know. But the fact remains that people
reserve the right to decide what happens to their bodies, both within
and outside marriage. Marriage should not be a license for rape. When
and if a man uses his penis to penetrate his wife's vagina without her
consent, it is called RAPE! Marriage shouldn't make it any less of a
crime than it is.
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